The 6 Ways Attachment Wastes Your Money

Attachment to outcome is the idea that a situation must play out in a certain way in the best interests of your life, relationship, business etc. People decide that there is only ONE solution and then become fixated on making that happen, regardless of obstacles or other data. When this happens, you’re not only ignoring…

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Do you justify your existence through hard work?

Love this quote from Abraham: Questions for contemplation: Where are you justifying your existence through your hard work? Where do you equate success or results with your struggle? Are you proud of the struggles you face? Do you identify with being a problem solver? Steps to take: How can you give yourself a break this week? Where…

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Nine Steps to Cure Your Codependent Money Behavior

In previous posts, I’ve discussed how codependent money behavior can be confused for generosity toward other people—but that at its core, it’s a cover for not being personally fulfilled.  Codependent behavior is about fulfilling some arbitrary ideal situation, relationship or thing, and by trying to make things “perfect,” you forget what you actually want and value.  So…

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Are You A Money Codependent?

There is a high correlation between codependency and money issues.  A “money codependent” really isn’t any different than a regular codependent; the term codependent describes the people who live with alcoholics or other addicts.  Codependents think they are responsible for everything that happens—including the behavior of the addict!  So in their minds, it’s really their fault when…

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How To Deal With A Control Freak

I have never tried to hide the fact that I am a recovering control freak and codependent. However, if you had TOLD me that was what I was doing at the time, I would have been shocked—I simply saw myself as the person who knew best. When I finally saw that I was actually the…

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Top 5 Financial Planning Tips for Entrepreneurs

People seem to have a clear idea of what they want for themselves when it comes to financial planning for their personal life, A.K.A, “personal finance,” but a lot of entrepreneurs ask me, what does it mean to do financial planning for your business?  Here are the 6 areas you should know about. Financial Planning For…

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